Stress can be a killer – quite literally. It is well documented that stress is a direct contributor to deaths caused by cancer, heart disease and diabetes. Equally undesirable conditions caused by stress include skin rashes, obesity, substance abuse, sleep problems, fatigue and depression. That is why it is essential to find easy and effective ways to deal with stress. You can:
1. Acknowledge that a certain amount of stress can improve your performance
Harness and use stress to push yourself a little bit harder when it counts most. Based on the body’s natural “fight or flight” response, that burst of energy will enhance your performance at the right moment.
2. Avoid the super-stressed
Protect yourself by recognizing stress in others and limiting your contact with them. Some people thrive on stress and cannot function without it. They live from drama to drama and crisis to crisis.
3. Model the stress experts
Do you know anyone who copes with stress very effectively? When people around you are losing their heads, who do you know that always keeps calm? What is this person doing differently? What is his/her attitude? How does he/she communicate? Notice coping strategies that might work for you too and then implement them.
4. Take a few deep breaths
You can trick your body into relaxing by taking several slow deep breaths. Breathe in slowly for a count of 7 then breathe out for a count of 11. Repeat the 7-11 breathing until your heart rate slows down, your sweaty palms dry and you start to feel more in control.
5. Stop worrying
“If this happens, then that might happen and then everything will be lost!” Most of these catastrophes will never happen, so why waste all that energy and time worrying needlessly? If possible, figure out what can you do to prevent it and then get on with your life.
6. Identify your triggers
Presentations, heavy traffic, interviews, meetings, giving or receiving feedback, tight deadlines… Make a list of your stress trigger points. Be specific. Is it only presentations to a certain audience that get you worked up? Does one project cause more stress than another? Chose and use a suitable coping strategy to avoid getting worked up.
7. Take care of yourself
Lack of sleep, poor diet, smoking, too much alcohol and caffeine and not enough exercise wreaks havoc on our body and your mind. Looking after yourself is often ignored as a stress management technique.
Knowing what causes you to feel stressed is one of the best ways to deal with stress. It allows you to take action to reduce your stress levels. Do you need to learn some new skills? Do you need extra resources? Do you need to switch to decaf?
The ability to make an informed choice about the different ways to deal with stress is essential. Increase your knowledge by reading up about the subject and about ways to manage stress so that you can choose a technique that works for you. If the task feels to daunting to face on your own, get help from an experienced stress consultant. If you are worried that stress is affecting your health, see your doctor immediately.
Don’t allow stress to ruin your health and your life.
Dr Margarethe de Clermont is the author of a popular e-book about easy and effective ways to deal with stress, the FREE report “How does Stress affect your health?” and runs a successful online stress management consultancy. More at http://www.Relax-and-Rejuvenate.com/waystodealwithstress.html